Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity. Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt,so that you may know how to answer everyone. Colossians 4:5-7 (NIV)
I don't know where the month of October went! It has just sped by! I realized, as I was thinking about this post that this has been a month where I have done social things more than usual. I have spent time investing in relationships that are important to me; with my God, my husband, and very dear friends. Time is a very precious commodity. God created time for man, He is totally outside of it, and He certainly does not need it! We have it to use and squander it foolishly, pretty often.
Time spent developing my relationship with God is time that is redeemed wisely. I like to get up early, grab a cup of coffee and my Bible, and be with Him. I love to sit on my deck, as weather permits. I love to hear the birds waking up, and experience the light dawning. The end of night and the coming of the light is an awesome experience. I spend time in prayer, in worship and in His Word. I love to just be still and know that He is God. (Psalm 46:10)
Time that I spend developing my relationship with my spouse is precious indeed. I intentionally set aside one day a week just for him. That means no working, no tutoring, no meetings with other ladies, it is just for him. If we are home together, that is enough. If we go on a date, that is enough. That time is ours, together. We each get up early with the other when one of us has to be up early. We have coffee and talk, or not. We share what we are reading in the Word, or a a prayer. I have reached an age, where many of my peers are widows or widowers, and I want to savor every moment I can with my perfect gift from God.
Time with dear friends is time well invested. I have realized lately that if I don't intentionally make time to invest in friends, it just won't happen! I traveled to Fort Mill, South Carolina to be with two of my very best friends. We traveled across the state to be with friends who have the same passion we do. Friends nurture us, share our passions, make us laugh, make us cry. I love our couple friends. I love my women friends! They love, they listen. My women friends empathize, and sympathize. They are intelligent, dreamers,imaginative, creative, practical, down to earth, believers, questioners and messy. My women friends push me to know God better so I can love them well.
Thank you dear friends, for sharing life with me. Thank you for reading this and passing it on! Thank you for your support in stepping out to do this. Thank your for being a friend.
